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Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You

Amy J.L. Baker & Paul R. Fine · 2014

Written for the parent who feels the kids slipping away toward a hostile ex. It names the alienation tactics you're seeing and gives you the exact words to say to your child, so you stay the steady, loving parent instead of fighting back.

Audiobook: Audible

Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Bill Eddy & Randi Kreger · 2021

When your ex twists facts, files complaints or makes false claims, this hands you a calm playbook. The second edition adds chapters on abuse, alienation and custody disputes, so you can protect your children and yourself without being dragged into endless drama.

Audiobook: Audible, Storytel

BIFF for CoParent Communication: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

Bill Eddy, Annette Burns & Kevin Chafin · 2020

That hostile text waiting on your phone doesn't have to ruin your night. This teaches one simple habit, replies that stay Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm, so you set boundaries, stop the back-and-forth and keep messages safe to show a judge.

Audiobook: Audible, Libro.fm

Don't Alienate the Kids! Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High-Conflict Divorce

Bill Eddy · 2010

This shifts the focus to what your child actually needs from you in the middle of the storm. It shows how kids get pulled into taking sides and what you can do every day to build their resilience, instead of waiting for the court to fix things.

Man's Search for Meaning

Viktor E. Frankl · 2006

A psychiatrist who survived the camps writes that we can't always choose what happens to us, but we can choose how we respond. For a parent worn down by conflict, it offers quiet ground to stand on when everything feels unfair, and a reason to keep going for your child.

Audiobook: Audible, Spotify

Rising Strong

Brené Brown · 2015

Brown studies what people actually do after they fall, get hurt or fail. She offers a clear, gentle process for getting back up instead of staying down in shame. Useful when a separation has knocked you flat and you need a way to face the next morning honestly.

Audiobook: Audible

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Lori Gottlieb · 2019

A therapist tells the stories of her clients and her own crisis after a sudden breakup, so you feel less alone in your pain. It's warm, often funny, and shows that grief and change are survivable. Easy to read in small pieces on a hard night.

Audiobook: Audible

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

Kristin Neff · 2011

When you're blaming yourself for the family falling apart, this book teaches you to treat yourself with the same patience you give your kids. Neff backs it with research and simple exercises. It helps replace the harsh inner voice with one you can actually live beside.

Audiobook: Audible

Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child

Isolina Ricci · 1997

Two generations of separating parents have leaned on this guide. Ricci walks you through building two stable homes, writing a workable parenting plan and stepping back from the old fights, so your child stops carrying the tension between you.

Audiobook: Audible

The Co-Parenting Handbook: Raising Well-Adjusted and Resilient Kids from Little Ones to Young Adults through Divorce or Separation

Karen Bonnell with Kristin Little · 2017

Written by a family coach and a child therapist, this is the practical one. It gives you real scripts for handovers, scheduling and money talks, plus age-by-age guidance so a four-year-old and a teenager each get what they actually need from two homes.

Audiobook: Audible

Joint Custody with a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex

Julie A. Ross and Judy Corcoran · 2011

For the hardest cases, where the other parent won't cooperate. Ross and Corcoran name the patterns honestly, show you your own part in the standoffs and hand you concrete tactics for staying calm and protecting your child when good faith is only coming from one side.

Audiobook: Audible, Libro.fm

The Divorce Workbook for Teens: Activities to Help You Move Beyond the Breakup

Lisa M. Schab · 2008

Written by a therapist who works with teens, this is a workbook you fill in rather than a lecture you read. The activities let you put words to anger, sadness or relief at your own pace, and they cover real headaches like living between two homes.

Now What Do I Do? A Guide to Help Teenagers with Their Parents' Separation or Divorce

Lynn Cassella-Kapusinski · 2006

The author's own parents split when she was eleven, so she writes without talking down to you. Short chapters and exercises help you name what you lost, set down the guilt that isn't yours, and stay out of the fight between your parents.

The Bright Side: Surviving Your Parents' Divorce

Max Sindell · 2007

Max was a teenager living through his own parents' divorce when he wrote this, so it reads like advice from someone your age who actually gets it. He talks honestly about two houses, new partners and finding small ways to make the situation work for you.

A Smart Girl's Guide to Her Parents' Divorce: How to Land on Your Feet When Your World Turns Upside Down

Nancy Holyoke · 2009

Built around real letters from girls going through the same thing, this book answers the awkward and scary questions plainly, from the first separation to a parent dating again. The tone is steady and kind, with practical tips for handling big feelings and family changes.

It's Not the End of the World

Judy Blume · 1972

Twelve-year-old Karen schemes to stop her parents from divorcing, certain she can fix things if she just tries hard enough. Blume captures the bargaining, denial and slow acceptance with such honesty that any child caught in the middle will feel seen and a little less alone.

The Suitcase Kid

Jacqueline Wilson · 1992

Ten-year-old Andy lives one week with Mum, one with Dad, dragging her suitcase and her toy rabbit Radish between two homes that never feel quite hers. Wilson writes the loneliness of shared custody plainly but keeps room for warmth, and Andy slowly finds her own footing.

Audiobook: Audible

Dear Mr. Henshaw

Beverly Cleary · 1983

After his parents split, lonely Leigh Botts pours his anger and longing into letters to a favorite author, and then a diary. This Newbery Medal winner lets a quiet boy say the hard things out loud, showing kids that writing can hold feelings too big to speak.

Audiobook: Audible

Stepping Stones

Lucy Knisley · 2020

In this warm graphic novel, Jen moves to a farm with her mom and her mom's boyfriend, resentful at leaving her dad and gaining two stepsisters. Knisley draws the messy reality of blended family life with humor and tenderness, and the pictures make heavy feelings easier to take in.

Kiedy rodzice się rozstają. Jak wspierać dziecko w czasie separacji lub rozwodu

Natalia Minge · 2024

Written by a psychologist and mother of four, this short, practical guide walks you through the exact words to use, how to handle the other parent during conflict, and how to hold your own feelings together while caring for your child.

Audiobook: Legimi

Dla dobra dziecka

Justyna Żukowska-Gołębiewska · 2025

A therapist who works with families in crisis unpacks what putting the child first actually means when you choose a custody model, tells ordinary conflict apart from post-separation harm, and keeps your child's real needs ahead of the fight between adults.

Audiobook: Legimi

Przygody Fenka. Trudne sprawy. Rozstanie rodziców

Dominika Gałka · 2021

Fenek learns how to be there for his friend Karol, whose parents are splitting up. Gentle and very short, with a child psychologist's notes, it lets a small child name scary feelings and hear that none of this is their fault.

Audiobook: Storytel

Rozwód to jeszcze nie koniec świata

Agnieszka Kazała

A therapeutic story set on the African savanna, where a lion cub's family goes through a crisis. It opens up divorce, child support and blended families for an early-school child, and gently shows them that other kids live through this too.

Audiobook: Audioteka

Two Homes

Claire Masurel (illus. Kady MacDonald Denton) · 2003

Alex has a bed, friends and people who love him at Mommy's place and at Daddy's place. The book quietly counts up what stays the same in both homes, so a worried small child hears that being loved doesn't get divided in two.

Living with Mom and Living with Dad

Melanie Walsh · 2012

Lift-the-flap pages walk through the ordinary stuff of two houses: two bedrooms, a toothbrush in each, favorite toys that travel along. The matter-of-fact tone treats living between homes as normal rather than sad, which steadies a three- or four-year-old.

Mum and Dad Glue

Kes Gray (illus. Lee Wildish) · 2010

A little boy hunts for a pot of glue to stick his parents back together, naming the wish almost every child of separation secretly holds. The rhyming story lands on a clear truth: the marriage came undone, but their love for him never did.

When My Parents Forgot How to Be Friends

Jennifer Moore-Mallinos (illus. Marta Fabrega) · 2005

A girl is frightened by her parents' constant fighting until they separate and the shouting stops. Written for ages four to seven, it gives small children honest words for arguments and reassures them that the divorce was never their fault.

The Invisible String

Patrice Karst (illus. Joanne Lew-Vriethoff) · 2018

A mother tells her children that an invisible string of love connects them across any distance, no matter whose house they sleep in tonight. Therapists hand this to families because it gives a frightened child one simple image to hold on to during every goodbye.

Audiobook: Audible, Amazon